handling tragedy

My preceptor was sent home around noon and I followed different nurse after.
She recently lost her 27 years old son and is a single mother of four.
She is good looking, always cute outfit (scrub)...
But I thought she is very cold person just because she is not a lovie-dovie person.

I had this nurse a year ago when I was told I was not doing good by my professor.
She encouraged me by saying that she was not doing well during nursing school.
Since then, I had a little special feeling about her. She is actually care about me not just saying.
I really respect her and actually wanted her to be my preceptor.

Today was her first day of working since her son passed away.
She brought her son's DVD with lots pics and videos.

I heard she found her son on the floor.

How terrible is that?
It is nobody's fault but she is a nurse and tried to revive him... and couldn't make it.
She was spaced a lot today but still working hard and cared about patients.
I love the way she treats her patients.

How would I react for loss of my loved ones?
She is a strong woman and I really respect her.


People have to go through so many tragedies but react to it differently


I had a patient who has to go hospice. Her family looked very disappointed but still act very cheerful.
I am always impressed by people.


人(human)
this letter stands for two people leaning on each other

human cannot live alone.
we lean on each other

That's why we are so sad when we lost other people...