The other day, I just talk to my friend in Japan. She told me she has cheated on her bf and really regret. They are still together and she decided not to tell him until she dies (the secret will take to her grave). I used to strict about cheating. I considered as cheat if my bf goes out with a girl, holding hands, kiss, of course sex, and flirting. But I just noticed my view of cheating changed a lot!!!
I would say, going out with a girl friend is okay. I would rather know who it will be but I don't think it's cheating at all. Holding hands.... I think that is kinda cheating because I can't think any reason to hold my male friends' hands... Kissing on the cheek is totally fine but not on the lips, and of course sex is cheating. Flirting is very difficult to say, if he clears he has a gf, I would think it's ok to flirt.
hmmm, people can change a lot in 6yrs.
But if I decide to cheat, I won't be able to keep a secret so had to break up, and I don't wanna do this so I will never cheat.
I don't know how my friend can keep in a secret. I can't say if it's good for her bf or not.
Also, if I was her bf, do I wanna know the fact my gf cheated on me??
yea, I need to know that. lies always piled up and ends up the worst problem.
I would say that I have never been cheated on. but who knows lol
But I have no way to figure out which makes me happy.
It would broke my heart f*cking hard if somebody cheated on me!!!
I haven't had to worry about it so far. which is very good :)
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